Ruby Turns 100 Days Old!

In Korea, babies get a big celebratory party when they turn 100 days old. Back in the old days, it really was a big deal if a baby made it to the first 100 days. Today, of course, most babies here reach that milestone with few problems, but it remains an important custom for Koreans.

Ruby being half-Korean, of course, we wanted to make sure she got her 100 day celebration (called “Chook Baegil”) but with our own unique twist representing both sides of her heritage.

So, we invited all of the grandparents and my uncle and aunt for the big day. Carrie, of course, did plenty to make sure the atmosphere was stylish and inviting.

Dad arrived…Ruby felt a little tentative…

We didn’t manage to get photos, but our meal idea was to offer Korean and American versions of the traditional long life noodles served at this occasion. So, I made jajangmyun, a Chinese-Korean noodle dish with a black bean sauce (trust me, it tastes way better than it sounds) while Carrie made spaghetti using her mom’s renowned sauce recipe. Both turned out awesome.

And then, my mom brought the traditional Korean rice cake! Everyone, including the uninitiated, really enjoyed it! The cake is sweet, almost tasting like a really dense angel food cake.

Afterwards, it was time for presents!

My dad had a silver cup engraved for her – very special!

My mom couldn’t resist more cute clothes!

My aunt and uncle got all kinds of neat things, including Ruby’s first chopsticks.

And though we didn’t get a picture of it, Grandma and Papaw gave Ruby some VERY useful funds that will be put to very good use.

It’s amazing how quickly time has passed; I can’t believe she has been with us for 100 days already. Before I know it, she’ll be turning a year old! My little girl is growing up so fast!

Two Months

We’re a little late, but better than never … Ruby is two months old! It’s been a big month, she helped mommy and daddy host a fantastic Christmas Eve, she had a blast on her first Christmas Day, she rang in the New Year by giving Sae-be to her Halmoni & Harubuji and … she got even CUTER than she was already!  Now she “talks” to us all the time by making the most adorable cooing sounds you’ve ever heard, and she definitely recognizes both mommy and daddy’s voices. She’s growing and thriving, and Ed & I fall in love with her more each day.

Ruby’s current stats (as of 1/6 at her 2-month well baby appointment):
11 lbs., 6 oz. and 23 in. long
(This puts her right at the 50th percentile, which her doctor says is just perfect!)

Current likes:
Standing up (well, trying to at least)
Bath time!
Hanging out on the changing table
Playing on the activity mat

The pouty lip - our newest clue that Ruby doesn't like something!

Current dislikes:
Getting put in the car seat (still)
Getting out of the bath tub

Notable events:
First long car trip to Bakersfield for Mason’s 1st Birthday
Christmas and New Years
First shots! She got 3  – such a trooper, she didn’t cry until the last one

Another fun thing she’s started to do is actually put one foot in front of the other and “walking”.
At just two months, it’s proof she’s going to be genius, right? :)

Music Mixes for 2010

To wrap up 2010, Ed & Carrie both made music compilations. We came from very different points of view this year – Ed discovered a lot of new stuff he loved, and came up with a solid comp of favorites. Carrie was pretty disenchanted and bored with the whiny indie rock that was so popular this year, and after resigning herself to the fact that she couldn’t just burn the entire Arcade Fire and Broken Bells albums in one comp, she went a different direction! (Also – just wondering: What’s with every indie band having some sort of nature/animal themed name? Deerhunter, Deerhoof, Antler Motel, whatever …)

So, please feel free to download our mixes. Have anything you’d suggest? Leave a comment here!

>>Click to download “Ed’s 10 in 10”
Track list:

1. Jardin Du Luxembourg – The Ghost of a Saber Toothed Tiger
2. Time of the Assassins – Charlotte Gainsbourg
3. Swim – Surfer Blood
4. Girl in Love – Smith Westerns
5. We Used to Wait – The Arcade Fire
6. Tighten Up – The Black Keys
7. On the Vista (feat. Mos Def) – BlakRoq
8. Stylo (feat. Mos Def & Bobby Womack) – Gorillaz
9. Something in the Way – Best Coast
10. It’s Working – MGMT


Click to download Carrie’s “Forget 2010!”
Old late-70s/early 80s punk and new wave sounded really good to me this year, so this comp was intended to reintroduce and re-familiarize you with some greats from that time. You may have heard them all before, but now you have them all in one place!

Track list:

Ruby’s First New Year!

Entering 2011 is very exciting on many levels. We are entering the new year as a family rather than as a couple. As such, we want to make sure Ruby gets to know her family traditions. New Years Day has some special rituals in Korean families, so we started off 2011 doing these with Ruby for the first time.

We started off heading down to my mom’s place, where she had prepared the traditional New Year breakfast of duk-kook, which is a very tasty and nourishing soup. It was delicious! It was Carrie’s first time eating this dish – she liked it a lot!

Afterwards, it was time for Ruby to do “sae-beh”, where children wish their grandparents a happy new year with a bow. Of course, I had to help Ruby out with this as she can’t talk or bow on her own just yet!

Halmoni (the Korean word for Grandmother) gave Ruby the cutest card and a gift!

Three generations!

Ruby loves her Halmoni!

Afterwards, we went to celebrate my dad’s birthday (which is January 1!) where Ruby got to meet her cousins Jeffrey and Luke, and their Uncle Danny and Aunt Janet for the first time.

Ruby did “sae-beh” to her Harabuji (Korean for Grandfather) too!

Three generations!

It was especially sweet just how much Jeffrey and Luke took to Ruby. And vice versa! Ruby kept smiling at them and trying to suck their fingers.

It was a wonderful and very special New Year’s Day, and we can’t wait to see what this year will have in store for us! It’s going to be a very fast year, I suspect, as babies do grow up fast. By this time next year, Ruby will be walking and maybe even uttering a word or two. It’s going to be an amazing year, so watch this space!

Click below to see the whole album.

New Years Day 2011