Ruby Turns 100 Days Old!

In Korea, babies get a big celebratory party when they turn 100 days old. Back in the old days, it really was a big deal if a baby made it to the first 100 days. Today, of course, most babies here reach that milestone with few problems, but it remains an important custom for Koreans.

Ruby being half-Korean, of course, we wanted to make sure she got her 100 day celebration (called “Chook Baegil”) but with our own unique twist representing both sides of her heritage.

So, we invited all of the grandparents and my uncle and aunt for the big day. Carrie, of course, did plenty to make sure the atmosphere was stylish and inviting.

Dad arrived…Ruby felt a little tentative…

We didn’t manage to get photos, but our meal idea was to offer Korean and American versions of the traditional long life noodles served at this occasion. So, I made jajangmyun, a Chinese-Korean noodle dish with a black bean sauce (trust me, it tastes way better than it sounds) while Carrie made spaghetti using her mom’s renowned sauce recipe. Both turned out awesome.

And then, my mom brought the traditional Korean rice cake! Everyone, including the uninitiated, really enjoyed it! The cake is sweet, almost tasting like a really dense angel food cake.

Afterwards, it was time for presents!

My dad had a silver cup engraved for her – very special!

My mom couldn’t resist more cute clothes!

My aunt and uncle got all kinds of neat things, including Ruby’s first chopsticks.

And though we didn’t get a picture of it, Grandma and Papaw gave Ruby some VERY useful funds that will be put to very good use.

It’s amazing how quickly time has passed; I can’t believe she has been with us for 100 days already. Before I know it, she’ll be turning a year old! My little girl is growing up so fast!

Ruby’s First New Year!

Entering 2011 is very exciting on many levels. We are entering the new year as a family rather than as a couple. As such, we want to make sure Ruby gets to know her family traditions. New Years Day has some special rituals in Korean families, so we started off 2011 doing these with Ruby for the first time.

We started off heading down to my mom’s place, where she had prepared the traditional New Year breakfast of duk-kook, which is a very tasty and nourishing soup. It was delicious! It was Carrie’s first time eating this dish – she liked it a lot!

Afterwards, it was time for Ruby to do “sae-beh”, where children wish their grandparents a happy new year with a bow. Of course, I had to help Ruby out with this as she can’t talk or bow on her own just yet!

Halmoni (the Korean word for Grandmother) gave Ruby the cutest card and a gift!

Three generations!

Ruby loves her Halmoni!

Afterwards, we went to celebrate my dad’s birthday (which is January 1!) where Ruby got to meet her cousins Jeffrey and Luke, and their Uncle Danny and Aunt Janet for the first time.

Ruby did “sae-beh” to her Harabuji (Korean for Grandfather) too!

Three generations!

It was especially sweet just how much Jeffrey and Luke took to Ruby. And vice versa! Ruby kept smiling at them and trying to suck their fingers.

It was a wonderful and very special New Year’s Day, and we can’t wait to see what this year will have in store for us! It’s going to be a very fast year, I suspect, as babies do grow up fast. By this time next year, Ruby will be walking and maybe even uttering a word or two. It’s going to be an amazing year, so watch this space!

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New Years Day 2011

Christmas Day 2010


After a wonderful Christmas Eve celebration with the Kim family, Christmas Day started out with just the three of us at home in the morning. Ruby had a few presents under the tree that she opened up with Daddy. Maybe she didn’t quite know what was going on, but that’s okay … we had fun watching her!


Since she loves being in her crib so much, we decided to get her a mobile. She is really into it! She loves the little animals and the soothing songs it plays …


She got lots of nice presents … including an awesome retro milk truck from The Shriers, Kitty Cat pajamas from Ed’s co-worker, Alice … and this super cute hat from Kristen!


This year, Ed and I set a $25 limit for ourselves. I got him a t-shirt from the LBC local spot, Joe Jost’s. They have Shiner Bock on tap there and Ed likes to order “The Special”. I figured I couldn’t go wrong with a t-shirt so he could represent! :)


Ed surprised me with a gift card to Golden Spoon … my favorite frozen yogurt ever!

After we unwrapped our gifts, it was time to head over to my parents house for the festivities at The Facey’s. We all have handmade stockings made by my dad, and this year – Ruby got hers, too! It turned out amazing. I love the poinsettias …

Ruby was happy to see her Grandma & Papaw …

And the three Kims got a rare photo all together in front of their Christmas Tree!

After the presents were unwrapped, Ruby modeled her special Christmas dress sent to her all the way from England from Joanne!

It was a beautiful day spent with family. Check out Dad’s blog for more pics of The Facey’s on Christmas Day!

Kim Family Christmas Eve 2010


Ask us a year ago if we would’ve thought that we’d be celebrating Christmas Eve in a new house with a new baby, and we probably wouldn’t have believed it! This has been quite a year, and that made this year’s Christmas Eve dinner even more special.
As usual, we were hosting Ed’s mom, dad, aunt and uncle for dinner. We even have a dining room now! We set our modern table in our signature red and white stripes, and for this year’s place settings I decided to do sugar cookie stars in red and green.


Also new for this year, I made a roast …


I loaded up an oven bag with potatoes, carrots and onions and cooked it for about 2.5 hours.


I did it!


The candles were lit and we waited for our guests to arrive.


Even Ruby got dressed up in her special Christmas Eve dress from Halmoni!

Tonight’s dinner consisted of Ed’s mom’s amazing spinach salad with pomegranate, cranberry, blueberry and almonds … My roast with potatoes and carrots, wild rice, roasted brussel sprouts and mushrooms, and Ed’s aunt brought the cake for dessert!


Even though we didn’t exchange gifts this year, the grandparents couldn’t resist buying a little something for Ruby. Harabuji bought Ruby two sets of pajamas, and Halmoni bought Ruby a special animal print dress since she was born in the year of the Tiger!


After everyone left, it was time for Ed to read Ruby ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas. Grandma & Papaw Facey bought us our own copy of the book so we could start the tradition of reading it to her before bedtime each Christmas Eve like my dad did for me!


This Christmas Eve was a wonderful night spent with our family in our new home. It just can’t get any better than that! Stay tuned for part two tomorrow! :)

Ruby gets showered … twice!

Ed & I were lucky enough to be thrown TWO showers before Ruby’s arrival. The first shower was thrown by my very creative & talented sister-in-law, Shirley and hosted by my parents at their house. Shirley made the shower my favorite red and white polka dot theme! One of the big highlights was that my Aunt Pam was able to make it out to CA for the event, and she hasn’t been here in 12 years! Here are a few photos of the lovely day:

Aunt Pam, myself and my mom with the cake my dad made and Ruby’s 1st teddy bear that my dad designed at Build-A-Bear:

Ruby’s 1st pair of Converse!

Ruby is gonna be a mod little baby in these onesies:

After all of the diaper cakes I’ve made, somebody made me my very own for Little Miss Ruby! :) This was made by my sis-in-law’s sister, Debbie.

My dad wrote a much more detailed entry of the day on his blog – check out more pics and details there!

My 2nd shower was graciously thrown by my best friend Carrie and her sister, Annie. They put together a beautiful shower in Carrie’s backyard. It was a great day with all of my friends – and so many handmade gifts! Here are a few highlights:

Ruby’s gorgeous handmade quilt by Crystal:

The incredible quilt made in reds, aquas and polka dots by the talented Liz Davidson!

A handmade dress made by Kristen!

Me with Joni & Carrie! Longtime friends, one a bridesmaid, the other my matron of honor, even!

The whole day was just wonderful and I wish I had more words to describe all the love I felt at both events and all of the excitement everyone has to meet our daughter! I feel tremendously lucky and thank everyone for their love & generosity!